tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post5355318503075015370..comments2008-06-07T20:10:43.008-04:00Mrs. Schmittyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14745072739050640143noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-35332618541499822782008-06-07T20:10:00.000-04:002008-06-07T20:10:00.000-04:00P.S. Be sure to positively reinforce when they do what you ask the first time. It's more effective than nagging. :)Half-Past Kissin' Timehttp://mrs4444.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-4862383303269125902008-06-07T20:09:00.000-04:002008-06-07T20:09:00.000-04:00I have two remedies for these problems. First, always make sure you have eye contact before giving a "directive." If necessary, have him relay to you what his understanding of the directive is. Second, in relation to chores, make a checklist (or better yet, have them make their own on the computer.) Set an expectation this summer that nothing happens until the checklist has been completed (checked off and approved by you). That means "no screens of any kind" or playing outside until the chores are done. My kids actually liked their lists and would head straight to them in the morning without me saying a word. I think they liked the structure. Good luck!Half-Past Kissin' Timehttp://mrs4444.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-57647722261962562662008-05-31T23:26:00.000-04:002008-05-31T23:26:00.000-04:00Yea..I'm pretty sure selective hearing is a requirement for having a weenie. Or so that's the case with Super B. <BR/><BR/>There's an added twist at our house. Instead of W's method of ignoring, Super B says, "Huh?? What?" <BR/><BR/><I>"Super B..pick up your socks."<BR/>"HUH????"<BR/>"Super B...you want a cookie?"<BR/>"SURE! THANKS!"</I><BR/><BR/>AhhhhhhhhhhhhhSuper B's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381834013048859013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-46347299680911075512008-05-31T19:10:00.000-04:002008-05-31T19:10:00.000-04:00It is a guy thing, so unfortunately he probably won't grow out of it (just get worse). I enjoyed reading this post, especially the humor you injected into it!Blog by Donnahttp://www.blogbydonna.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-85688902623319030392008-05-31T14:59:00.000-04:002008-05-31T14:59:00.000-04:00Liv has very selective hearing. She was fine until she was about six. And then, I noticed that she could remember that I had promised to bake chocolate chip cookies four days ago but forget that asked her to please put her socks in the hamper before she came downstairs for breakfast that morning.Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05049511202014141182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-53064886677821606642008-05-31T13:15:00.000-04:002008-05-31T13:15:00.000-04:00I think selective hearing IS a virus. A psychic virus that is transmitted through air, water, television, and popular culture.<BR/><BR/>I was having deja vu reading about your requests to your kids. and "preja vu" because I know I'll be having the SAME CONVERSATIONS over and over and over and over and over and over..<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry, what was I saying?Manager Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17648981937075813835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-47333604846882485132008-05-31T12:59:00.000-04:002008-05-31T12:59:00.000-04:00As a Mommy of three (17, 15 and 12) I can relate. LOL.Meritthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10711662607879816395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-61418934369269261152008-05-31T09:54:00.000-04:002008-05-31T09:54:00.000-04:00Recently I was trying to figure out why my 2 year old wouldn't say please. Took me a long time to realise it was because I always commands to her and never said please myself. Bit of a wake-up call for me!!AliBlahBlahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03335907266347761153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-76271479099764817232008-05-31T06:58:00.000-04:002008-05-31T06:58:00.000-04:00My four year old has the male selective hearing gene also. It’s absolutely infuriating. And men wonder why women nag…Triciahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06086740613832715808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-44078829091188204662008-05-31T06:23:00.000-04:002008-05-31T06:23:00.000-04:00I think we all shout, don't we? I'm not heard unless I shout!<BR/><BR/>It's the repeating that bugs me. When I know they heard me the first time, but by the eighth, they say, "I heard you the first time!"<BR/><BR/>I don't mind shouting, though. The woman next door shouts a lot louder at her kids! lol<BR/><BR/>Misslionheart♥tootsiehttp://tootsie.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-34693329026623061732008-05-31T01:15:00.000-04:002008-05-31T01:15:00.000-04:00I can hardly see through the tears of laughter to post this stinkin' comment. Ditto, ditto, ditto. I really can't put it any better. My hubby gets really mad when I yell. He hates it, I keep trying to tell him the same thing, if they would just listen the first 40 times I tell them, I wouldn't have to. I can yell and the neighbors canhear every cuss word 2 blocks away but my kids just look at me and say. I didn't hear you. sheesh!Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09370681673591214131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-47020679973336203842008-05-30T15:25:00.000-04:002008-05-30T15:25:00.000-04:00Um...yes. YES is all I have to say. Except that it happens with my girlie just as often as with my boys.Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08585572295277151602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-29141129307371296042008-05-30T15:06:00.000-04:002008-05-30T15:06:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Enjoy Beinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06230846962855832106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-51805536680832192582008-05-30T14:39:00.000-04:002008-05-30T14:39:00.000-04:00That is so very MALE of him! My 12 year old suffers from selective hearing. My patience is wearing thin.meleah rebeccahhttp://mommamiameaculpa.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-23956142137054655642008-05-30T09:54:00.000-04:002008-05-30T09:54:00.000-04:00Oh honey, I actually took my son TO THE DOCTOR for his hearing "problems." They laughed at me, told me they were sure he would test fine and HE DID. They said that they get calls at least once a week asking to test the hearing of boys between 7 and 13. Little brats, all of 'em.Karlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15514956133338105723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-47534113099371473802008-05-30T09:16:00.000-04:002008-05-30T09:16:00.000-04:00I think our kids all read the same manual on how to puch our buttons! This happens here too...frustrating and agrevating!<BR/><BR/>hang in there!Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08122365458052947125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-9047288440817290812008-05-30T00:33:00.000-04:002008-05-30T00:33:00.000-04:00It must be a Schmitt gene, and I'm a carrier. <BR/><BR/>Your house sounds like my house. It's like it doesn't count until Mom says it five times, and only if she says it really loud. <BR/><BR/>AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!Jennifer Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16239563357592230711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-90173397390175258842008-05-30T00:12:00.000-04:002008-05-30T00:12:00.000-04:00Selective hearing is gift among children, especially boys it seems. We go through that time and time again with Hunter. Sometimes yelling is all that will work.The Fritz Factshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05162992338469733361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-60139236311118977182008-05-29T23:57:00.000-04:002008-05-29T23:57:00.000-04:00ext time try this: Tell your kids you will only tell them 2 times and then something of theirs...game, play time, candy, is gone. No questions asked. I am sure the first few times, they will "not hear you" but after losing something they love a few times, I bet the hearing will improve. <BR/><BR/>Then again it could be that male selective hearing my husband suffers from. Terribly debilitating.Zephrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04036187147036400140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38477057.post-65403637324742679282008-05-29T23:12:00.000-04:002008-05-29T23:12:00.000-04:00We have selective hearing in this house too.<BR/>I hate to yell. Hate it. But sometimes that's the only way he seems to hear me.Life As I Know Ithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09492465378321819342noreply@blogger.com